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SOMEONE

“In life, there is always that special person who shapes who you are, who helps to determine the person you become.”

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Nothing like waking up and knowing that you finally have who you need for the rest of your life. The peace that comes to your heart sometimes can’t even be described. You’ve been through so many things in the past with other people putting you through storms that, it’s nice to finally have someone who can love you and hold your hand while you both walk through them now. It’s nice to finally have someone that gives you the friendship inside of a relationship. It’s nice to finally have someone who can finish off your sentences or make you laugh when you aren’t feeling your best. It’s nice to finally have not just your partner in love but, your partner in life. Someone you can consult with when you need to make difficult decisions. Someone you can turn to when life isn’t going so well. When you have someone who is willing to walk with you through both the good and the bad without abandoning you, that’s when you know you have a special one. There is nothing like having this person in your life.

One of the best things about being in the right relationship is the peace you feel with not having to worry about the other person breaking your heart. It’s such a beautiful thing when the both of you can start a brand new chapter together on the same page. When the both of you can be transparent with each other, and accept each other wholeheartedly, it really is a great feeling. You will know when you are in the right relationship when the other person makes you feel emotionally and mentally happy all the way around.

At the end of the day, we just want someone we can see ourselves grow with. A good example of a future mother or father is enough for us to give you a chance. And if we already have children, we just want someone who can be the proper role model and share the right kind of influences that we already share with our children. We are not dating because we are bored. We are not dating to pass time by. We are dating with the intent of being well off for the rest of our life with someone special. And even though things didn’t work out with people in our past, some of us still believe in that forever kind of love.

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You have to respect the person who is not waiting for someone to complement their looks, but instead they are waiting for the person who can complement their life. Not only should love be easier with the right one, but your life should feel easier with them in it as well. Be willing to wait on someone who can give you; comfort instead of headaches, joy instead of pain, effort instead of excuses, truth instead of lies and laughter instead of frustration. One of the greatest insurances you can have in life is having someone who can give you the kind of love that you need consistently. It’s not easy waiting on someone special, but I guarantee you they will definitely be worth it.

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Plant positive thoughts in your head before bed so they can be birthed into positive vibes and positive habits when you wake up the next morning. Speak your way into a better life. Speak positively over your dreams, goals, health, finances and your love life. The seeds you plant today, will determine the garden you end up watering tomorrow.

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TRULY HAPPINESS

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Many of us have been believing in a lie. We’ve brought into the myth that happiness is something we achieve when everything in our life finally looks the way we’ve been thinking it should.The truth is that happiness is not circumstantial. And this is really good news. It means we don’t have to wait for everything to be perfect, nor do we have to control anything outside of ourselves in order to feel a certain way.

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“We can choose happiness in this moment.”

It’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking that we will be happy as soon as everything in our lives is exactly the way we want it to be—and that the solution to happiness is that we must keep working harder to control these external situations in order to make them “right.”

Here, I share three practical ways to cultivate more happiness within and create a life beyond your wildest dreams.

  1. Connect With Yourself

    Slow down and get quiet enough to listen to your inner guide (a.k.a your intuition or your truth), and spend less time listening to other people’s opinions or the loud, critical voice inside your own mind (which often manifests as racing thoughts or 3a.m. panic). One of the best practices for cultivating the ability to hear your inner guiding system is meditation. If finding the time to sit quietly is not realistic at the moment, an even simpler life-changing practice is to make daily mundane activities—such as brushing our teeth or standing in line at the grocery store—a time for quiet reflection. In these moments, ask for guidance and listen for some clear answers.

    When we flex our spiritual muscle and connect with ourselves, it gives us access to an inner abundance of wisdom and knowledge (you’ll recognize it as a quiet, calm knowing voice). This inner source of wisdom will always guide us to our best right actions.

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2.Set an Intention to Be Happy

Despite what we may have been taught, happiness is as simple as just choosing to be happy. When we truly realize this—that happiness is a choice—we instantly empower ourselves in any situation, whether it’s a relationship, job, or pattern of thinking that’s been creating judgments, worry, doubt, fear, or confusion. The moment we choose to perceive things differently by choosing a loving perception of ourselves, others, and our circumstances, we not only strengthen our capacity to feel happy—we also open ourselves up to limitless possibilities where there once was seemingly no solution. A creative flow reveals itself, and we’re able to experience more ease and less struggle sometimes instantly.

This is a lifelong practice, because when we’re not monitoring our thoughts, they have a tendency of veering back into fear and worry. One of the simplest and most profound ways we can align with loving perceptions each day is to practice setting an intention every morning when we wake up. This intention can be very simple: Just say to yourself, I choose happiness—and feel it.

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3.Surrender

Most of us don’t know what “surrender” means. It’s the opposite of the way many of us operate, which is by attempting to control outcomes and situations and to make things happen. In contrast, surrender occurs when we release our need to control things, and instead choose to place a higher level of trust and faith in the process of life.

When we tap into this relaxed energy, we allow that which we desire to flow to us in a miraculous way. The job, relationship, or whatever we are envisioning and desiring for our lives is all on its way—and when we surrender our plans for the timeline and the form in which we think it should arrive, we allow an even bigger and better outcome to take place. When we are not fearfully boxing ourselves in, we are able to fearlessly say YES to limitless opportunities for joy to enter our lives.

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By connecting with ourselves, setting intentions to be happy, and surrendering to the natural flow of life, we can breathe a sigh of relief, trusting and knowing that everything is unfolding in perfect, divine timing—and the only work we need to do is to get out of our own way and let life happen. Because happiness is our birthright.its-hard-to-move-on-in-life

 

LONG JOURNEY

Life as a journey  filled with lessons, hardships, heartaches, joys, celebrations and special moments that will ultimately lead us to our destination, our purpose in life. The road will not always be smooth; in fact, throughout our travels, we will encounter many challenges.Some of these challenges will test our courage, strengths, weaknesses, and faith. Along the way, we may stumble upon obstacles that will come between the paths that we are destined to take. In order to follow the right path, we must overcome these obstacles. Sometimes these obstacles are really blessings in disguise, only we don’t realize that at the time.

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Time stops for no one, and if we allow ourselves to focus on the negative we might miss out on some really amazing things that life has to offer. We can’t go back to the past, we can only take the lessons that we have learned and the experiences that we have gained from it and move on. It is because of the heartaches, as well as the hardships, that in the end help to make us a stronger person.

The people that we meet on our journey, are people that we are destined to meet. Everybody comes into our lives for some reason or another and we don’t always know their purpose until it is too late. They all play some kind of role. Some may stay for a lifetime; others may only stay for a short while.

It is often the people who stay for only a short time that end up making a lasting impression not only in our lives, but in our hearts as well. Although we may not realize it at the time, they will make a difference and change our lives in a way we never could imagine. To think that one person can have such a profound affect on your life forever is truly a blessing. It is because of these encounters that we learn some of life’s best lessons and sometimes we even learn a little bit about ourselves.

People will come and go into our lives quickly, but sometimes we are lucky to meet that one special person that will stay in our hearts forever no matter what. Even though we may not always end up being with that person and they may not always stay in our life for as long as we like, the lessons that we have learned from them and the experiences that we have gained from meeting that person, will stay with us forever.

It’s these things that will give us strength to continue on with our journey. We know that we can always look back on those times of our past and know that because of that one individual, we are who we are and we can remember the wonderful moments that we have shared with that person.

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Memories are priceless treasures that we can cherish forever in our hearts. They also enables us to continue on with our journey for whatever life has in store for us. Sometimes all it takes is one special person to help us look inside ourselves and find a whole different person that we never knew existed. Our eyes are suddenly opened to a world we never knew existed- a world where time is so precious and moments never seem to last long enough.

Throughout this adventure, people will give you advice and insights on how to live your life but when it all comes down to it, you must always do what you feel is right. Always follow your heart, and most importantly never have any regrets. Don’t hold anything back. Say what you want to say, and do what you want to do, because sometimes we don’t get a second chance to say or do what we should have the first time around.

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Along our journey we will be confronted with many situations, some will be filled with joy, and some will be filled with heartache. How we react to what we are faced with determines what kind of outcome the rest of our journey through life will be like.
When things don’t always go our way, we have two choices in dealing with the situations. We can focus on the fact that things didn’t go how we had hoped they would and let life pass us by, or two, we can make the best out of the situation and know that these are only temporary setbacks and find the lessons that are to be learned.
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