“In life, there is always that special person who shapes who you are, who helps to determine the person you become.”
Nothing like waking up and knowing that you finally have who you need for the rest of your life. The peace that comes to your heart sometimes can’t even be described. You’ve been through so many things in the past with other people putting you through storms that, it’s nice to finally have someone who can love you and hold your hand while you both walk through them now. It’s nice to finally have someone that gives you the friendship inside of a relationship. It’s nice to finally have someone who can finish off your sentences or make you laugh when you aren’t feeling your best. It’s nice to finally have not just your partner in love but, your partner in life. Someone you can consult with when you need to make difficult decisions. Someone you can turn to when life isn’t going so well. When you have someone who is willing to walk with you through both the good and the bad without abandoning you, that’s when you know you have a special one. There is nothing like having this person in your life.
One of the best things about being in the right relationship is the peace you feel with not having to worry about the other person breaking your heart. It’s such a beautiful thing when the both of you can start a brand new chapter together on the same page. When the both of you can be transparent with each other, and accept each other wholeheartedly, it really is a great feeling. You will know when you are in the right relationship when the other person makes you feel emotionally and mentally happy all the way around.
At the end of the day, we just want someone we can see ourselves grow with. A good example of a future mother or father is enough for us to give you a chance. And if we already have children, we just want someone who can be the proper role model and share the right kind of influences that we already share with our children. We are not dating because we are bored. We are not dating to pass time by. We are dating with the intent of being well off for the rest of our life with someone special. And even though things didn’t work out with people in our past, some of us still believe in that forever kind of love.
You have to respect the person who is not waiting for someone to complement their looks, but instead they are waiting for the person who can complement their life. Not only should love be easier with the right one, but your life should feel easier with them in it as well. Be willing to wait on someone who can give you; comfort instead of headaches, joy instead of pain, effort instead of excuses, truth instead of lies and laughter instead of frustration. One of the greatest insurances you can have in life is having someone who can give you the kind of love that you need consistently. It’s not easy waiting on someone special, but I guarantee you they will definitely be worth it.
Plant positive thoughts in your head before bed so they can be birthed into positive vibes and positive habits when you wake up the next morning. Speak your way into a better life. Speak positively over your dreams, goals, health, finances and your love life. The seeds you plant today, will determine the garden you end up watering tomorrow.